Wednesday, March 02, 2005
i just had german class. my teacher, ms urike, and i were discussing a very controversial topic - premarital sex. she, being european, is more liberal about it. she believes that it's better for the relationship. if both virgins were to get married, both parties might be sexually disappointed after the first nuptial night. she claims it's good to have sexual experience. but she cautioned that one should only have sex with the person one has feelings for, and not any tom, dick, harry or jane that comes along. and never have sex with a person whom you know only wants a one-night-stand. obviously, she is not against cohabitation. in fact, she advocates it. in europe, it's prevalent. i personally feel that virginity is pure and sacred. being asian, i am more conventional and not want to 'give it all' to someone who might not turn out to be my future spouse. but i think cohabitation might not be a bad thing after all. you can see the other (perhaps, ugly) side of that boyfriend/girlfriend of yours and decide if you can live with that. it's sort of like probatory period. well, i can only shrug and say i personally do not want to engage in premarital sex. of course, never say never. yes?
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